Today my family and our friends said a final goodbye to my father, Joe Simek. He was also known by other names like Dad, Papa, Pop, Poopsie, Pep(which is Joe in Czech) and Old Fart which he didn’t mind in the least because he knew it was said with love by his grandsons.
But before I discuss the funeral I’d like to talk about yesterday and the viewing. The viewing was between noon and 8pm. The immediate family had a private viewing at 11. Mom and I were the first to arrive. The funeral home attendant walked us to the room. He opened the door for us. There was Dad in his beautiful light oak coffin across the room. It was a very large room. The wood casket was perfect for him because one of his talents was that he was a carpenter and he liked to work in oak. He made us dressers, dry sinks, night stands, plant stands, wine racks, tv stands, a dog cart, sconces, microwave carts and so many more items. When my sister, Janet and I were young he drew and cut out horse heads and attached broom sticks to them so we had our own horses to ride. We were never poor because he always found a way to enrich our lives such as giving us our own Olympic arena. There were so many winters he would drag the water hose up from the basement numerous times to stand out in the freezing Michigan winters watering a spot in the backyard to create an ice rink for us and our neighborhood friends.
Yesterday was a day to talk about my dad and we did. After Fr Stephen Rooney prayed the rosary with us family members took their turns speaking about Dad. Nephews Brad and Mike, niece Danielle, brother-in-law Dave, my sister and her mother-in-law all gave testimony to the wonderful man my father was. My sister sang a Charlie Chaplin ditty my dad liked to sing. Brad let everyone know how Dad taught him to say “You fart like a pumpkin” in Czech. Mike not only gave a wonderful talk about Dad but he read a poem directed to my mom as if it were from my dad. Dave recited an awesome poem that he wrote about my dad and my mom. Danielle talked about how he taught her to bake yeast rolls and when he came to her softball games when she was in grade school. My dad always said he was a jack of all trades but a master of none but he was wrong. He was a master of giving love.
This morning was a cold, dreary, rainy day in Monroe, Michigan. My family, relatives and friends came to St Michael’s to celebrate my dad’s life and his journey to eternal life. On my drive up from Florida I remembered my dad telling me about how he viewed the trip between Michigan/Florida or Florida/Michigan. He said there are roughly 1000 miles for the trip. Every one hundred miles equals 10% of the journey. Today we celebrated my dad reaching his 100% to heaven. There is no doubt in my mind that is where he is tonight.
The last song this morning was On Eagle’s Wings. The pallbearers were on each side of the casket navigating it to the exit as the choir continued singing. We followed behind. As the casket neared the back of the church, the massive old wooden doors were opened to reveal a winter wonderland of snow that had been created while we were inside. It seemed magical. It was kind of like the magic that my dad brought into all of our lives.
There have been lines of a song that have been repeating through my head the last few days. Paul Petersen sang it on The Donna Reed Show way back when.
My dad, now here is a man
To me he is everything strong
No, he can’t do wrong, my dad
Rest in peace, Daddy. I love you….